Got Questions? I can help

Every week I answer questions about leadership and management in myĀ Facebook Live broadcasts. My community of Effortless Leaders (1000 and growing) has great questions and my aim is to give practical, concise answers and ideas that help them move forward.

If youā€™d like to be part of this community, you canĀ join us here.Ā 

I look forward to seeing you there!

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Saying No is your ā€˜Superpowerā€™

Being kind, helpful and supportive is A GOOD THING.

Being at the beck and call of everyone else so that you donā€™t have a life is NOT a good thing. Youā€™ll forever feel overwhelmed.

In this videoĀ we look at how to protect your time AND be available for other people.

You CAN do both.

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Meeting Madness ā€“ (please make it go away!)

Do you spend ages in pointless meetings?

Back-to- back talking shops that serve no purpose and waste our time are a BIG contributor to overwhelm.

You need tactics ā€“ for ā€˜meeting mastery.ā€™

AND - an elegant way to say ā€˜noā€™ to those time-wasting talking shops that ruin your day.Ā 

This video will show you how.

No more mind-numbing collective procrastination where nothing gets done.Ā 

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Use your energy to beat overwhelm (A woo-woo free zone)

The Energy Effortless Connection - watch this short videoĀ all about how to maximise your high energy time AND create some doable routines.

As always, the steps are bite-sized, practical and actionable.

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Your faulty thinking is killing your resilience

As always Iā€™m taking a break from writing new blogs in August to recharge my batteries (I try to practise what I preach) so over this month I will be sharing four of this yearā€™s most popular blog posts with you. If you havenā€™t read them yetā€¦.hereā€™s your chance!

This week itā€™s about resilience.

In the series I wrote on theĀ Six Characteristics of a Resilient Team, we looked at the topics of common purpose, team norms, trust and candid conversations.Ā 

The fourth characteristic of a resilient team is the ability to think resiliently.

I wrote about thinking traps fairly recently so Iā€™m not going to repeat myself on that front.

But I will say this. The more teams can become aware of their own ā€˜faulty thinkingā€™, particularly the faulty thinking that is eroding their resilience, the better.

One of the teams I have been working with recently had a collective ā€˜thinking trapā€™ of ā€˜externalisingā€™. Blaming each other for lack of collaboration on key projects, complaining to the CEO about other
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35 Questions to help you lead effortlessly

As always Iā€™m taking a break from writing new blogs in August to recharge my batteries (I try to practise what I preach) so over this month I will be sharing four of this yearā€™s most popular blog posts with you. If you havenā€™t read them yetā€¦.hereā€™s your chance!

This week itā€™s a free checklist to help you and your team.

I love a good checklist and I know that you do too.

Iā€™ve put this one together to help you and your team get absolutely clear on whatā€™s working and what isnā€™t ā€“ questions about your organisation, questions for your team and for you personally.

You can complete the checklist online.

Contact me if youā€™d like the link!
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I got fired ā€“ (and what I learned)

fired lessons senior role Aug 16, 2019

As always Iā€™m taking a break from writing new blogs in August to recharge my batteries (I try to practise what I preach) so over this month I will be sharing four of this yearā€™s most popular blog posts with you. If you havenā€™t read them yetā€¦.hereā€™s your chance!

This week itā€™s about being fired.
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ā€‹Iā€™ve been fired twice.Ā 

Once from a seasonal job in Switzerland - for insubordination. (If you know me, that wonā€™t surprise you at all ā€“ and in my defence, I was very young). And a year or so later for not ā€˜looking the partā€™ (my ā€˜just out of student lifeā€™ gear didnā€™t work in the hallowed world of posh interior design).Ā 

That taught me I wanted to work in a ā€˜less traditionalā€™ environment ā€“ over the next ten years my travel industry job took me to Spain, France, Australia, Thailand, Israel, Greece, Egypt, Cyprus, Hawaii (someone had to do it). My bosses were a plane journey away and I worked with some great people who became lifelong friends. (That taught me the value of true friendship ā€“ and freedo...

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Corporate Values are Meaningless unlessā€¦.

corporate values Aug 09, 2019

As always Iā€™m taking a break from writing new blogs in August to recharge my batteries (I try to practise what I preach) so over this month I will be sharing four of this yearā€™s most popular blog posts with you. If you havenā€™t read them yetā€¦.hereā€™s your chance!

This week itā€™s Corporate Values.

I have to say I am sometimes a bit cynical about corporate values (there, I said it!). Not because they are not good things to have ā€“ in theory they are - but because so often they are words created to sound good, written by the senior team, a ā€˜project groupā€™ or a bunch of consultants who then think ā€˜job doneā€™. But everyone else thinks they are being ā€˜done toā€™.Ā 

No-one in the business really understands them or remembers them and even if they do, they donā€™t necessarily see those values being lived or breathed on a daily basis.Ā 

And we all know that actions speak louder than words.

Thereā€™s also the belief that some values can be seen as unhelpful to organisational performance or a way of avoiding d...

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Best read of the year

Uncategorized Aug 02, 2019

As always Iā€™m taking a break from writing new blogs in August to recharge my batteries (I try to practise what I preach) so over this month I will be sharing four of this yearā€™s most popular blog posts with you. If you havenā€™t read them yetā€¦.hereā€™s your chance!

This week:

I recommended this book just before Christmas last year. Itā€™s a must read.

21 Lessons for the 21st Century by Yuval Noah Harari

So if youā€™re off on your holidays, put it on your reading list.

Compelling, frightening, illuminating and completely mind boggling.

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Small talk can change your life (for the better)

A couple of years ago, I gave one of my clients an experiment to practise ā€˜small talkā€™ with a variety of people in and outside work. In the supermarket, on the many flights he took for work, with colleagues and so on.

There was a solid business case and reason for this as well as a deeply personal one which was about building trust, being genuinely interested in others and getting to know people as ā€˜human beingsā€™ not just roles and titles. In essence it was about helping him to CONNECT with his work colleagues. Heā€™d struggled to do this using the belief that ā€˜private stuff has no place at workā€™ and it was having a detrimental effect on his work relationships ā€“ people described him as ā€˜secretiveā€™ and ā€˜closedā€™ when of course he simply saw the world in a different way from his peers .

He really wanted to change this (whilst remaining true to what he described as ā€˜my inner introvertā€™!) and so he started those experiments. He found it hard at first. He thought that talking about the weath...

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