‘They’ might not like it
Nov 15, 2019
Last week I talked about the non-negotiable first step to take if you want more self-confidence.
I put my big girl panties on and shared my goal for January 2020.
Thank you for all the support and encouragement you gave me in your emails – it gives me energy, motivation and, yes, confidence.
I do know, though, that sometimes when we take that first step, we get kick-back, we get the nay-sayers, we get the people who undermine us, the people who say ‘you can’t do it’.
This can feel tough. It can make us wobble and doubt ourselves. It can make us retreat back to safety.
But you know what?
That says more about them than you.
If they feel threatened, that’s their problem.
Trust your own wisdom.
I find that once you commit to something, you’re likely to make it happen. One step at a time.
So find those cheerleaders and lose the energy vampires!
I put my big girl panties on and shared my goal for January 2020.
Thank you for all the support and encouragement you gave me in your emails – it gives me energy, motivation and, yes, confidence.
I do know, though, that sometimes when we take that first step, we get kick-back, we get the nay-sayers, we get the people who undermine us, the people who say ‘you can’t do it’.
This can feel tough. It can make us wobble and doubt ourselves. It can make us retreat back to safety.
But you know what?
That says more about them than you.
If they feel threatened, that’s their problem.
Trust your own wisdom.
I find that once you commit to something, you’re likely to make it happen. One step at a time.
So find those cheerleaders and lose the energy vampires!
P.S. If you missed last week’s article, you can find it here.
